Sometimes, when you intend to start a business or launch a product or just about anything that your name is attached to, you probably know what to do and the necessary process. But, most times, you are afraid to push what you are doing to the public; you are afraid of criticism, you are afraid of being turned down, you are afraid of making mistakes, you are afraid of failing. The bad news is; you secretly don’t believe in yourself or what you can do. But the good news is; you are not alone.
Published June 4th. 2020
There
is nothing wrong with feeling that way. Every successful business owners,
inventors and creators also went through the same self inflicted emotional
torture and unnecessary inferiority complex. But what these successful people
learnt very quickly is to believe in themselves. If you want others to believe
in your business—or product—which is an extension of you, then first, you must
learn to believe in yourself.
Some
are fortunate to be born into the royal family—according to them, blue
blood—where they are trained from childhood on how to be superior to others.
Some are fortunate trust fund babies-turned-adults and were exposed to the
luxury and whatsoever had unconsciously helped them to build their self-esteem
and confidence. You may not be from any of these two groups and life had dealt
with you and taught you to be timid. The people around you had screamed into
your head, while growing up, that you are nobody. You may have been consciously
or unconsciously battered emotionally.
If
you are from this group, grab a pen and notepad. Start by writing down, in
affirmative statements, the beautiful things you secretly admire about
yourself. If you don’t admire anything about yourself, write down the beautiful
things you admire in others and just personalized them. Even if you feel
distant away from what you writing down, just go ahead and keep writing until
you are done.
Once
you are done writing down, you have passed the first stage to renewing your
self-esteem. Secondly, stand in front of the mirror, at least twice a day (first
thing in the morning and last thing before you sleep at night), and read aloud
to yourself what you have written down, whether you believe what you are saying
or not. You may not believe it, but the universe and your subconscious mind
believe everything you are saying. Keep repeating this process like forever.
Even when you see your courage building up, don’t stop repeating the process in
front of your mirror. As you do that, you are unconsciously overwriting the
negative existing programs in your mind with positive ones. Here is what you
are doing, you are simply re-engineering yourself. You are reconfiguring your
entire being. In a layman language, you are changing yourself from that timid
fellow to someone with a superior self-esteem.
The
next thing you need to do is to take action and throw caution into the air. Most
times your actions will unconsciously respond to your believe. So, when you start
feeling or acting differently or taking some unplanned actions, don’t fight it.
Don’t think when the opportunity comes for you to take any action; just do it.
Don’t think about the criticism, just act. Don’t think about failing, just
plunge ahead. Don’t think about wining, just win.
So,
when it comes to starting your own business—or launching your product—just send
it to orbit (the public), whether it is perfect or not. Rome, Paris, Dubai and
Las Vegas weren’t built in a day. Everything is a work in progress. So are you,
your business or product. Accept criticism, make mistakes and fail over and
over again, but don’t give up. Examine the negative and positive feedbacks and
re-launch your business or product. Pretty soon, you will no longer have to
worry about acceptance.
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